Modern XMPP project discussion - 2026-03-31


  1. erebion

    > This is one of the great debates in XMPP. Does "busy" mean "don't call me" or "I will ignore your calls" ? "busy" means "busy". If it's a disastruous life-or-death situation, I might still write to or call a person. Otherwise I do it later. Just like you don't keep talking to someone who says "Sorry, I'll need to focus for a minute, let's talk later."

  2. stratself

    eh i'd prefer if the client has an "auto-reject calls when busy" option

  3. jjrh

    > This is one of the great debates in XMPP. Does "busy" mean "don't call me" or "I will ignore your calls" ? Do not disturb means you shouldn't contact the person. Busy means you have your attention elsewhere - like you're in a video call

  4. erebion

    this